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Love’s Other Names

Three years ago I came to Breitenbush to learn about love. My heart had just been broken open by the sudden cessation of a six-year relationship, and its reverberations left me hungry to live in love’s center, with or without a partner.

I came to Breitenbush to learn about love and I have. I’ve learned that love can feel like strong hugs and bright smiles and campfire harmonies. I expected this.

What I didn’t expect is that love also feels like the fibers around my heart ripping open, tearing to reveal the pink pulsing center within. I didn’t expect to feel the breeziness that comes with such vulnerability. I didn’t expect that love would ask me so often to find my own sturdy core so as not to get knocked around by other people’s storms.

Love has […]
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Breitenbush University by Mona Nicholson

My first visit to Breitenbush was in 1981.  Being here evolved…from day use, while camping at Detroit Lake with my family…to personal retreats and workshops.  Breitenbush was a place I returned to over the years to bring my life, as we say, ‘back into balance.’ 

After retiring from being a teacher and a principal, the doors opened for me to join the Breitenbush community and business.  The continuation of my spiritual pilgrimage on this sacred land now continues daily.

This month, it will be 6 years since first coming to live and work at Breitenbush.  I’m loved, accepted, cared for…and corrected, at times.  Mostly, I’m allowed to simply be me…here…now. 

Over the years, I’ve searched for a path; a credo on which I could “stand.”  The Breitenbush Credo is the closest I’ve come.  The river, mountains, trees, stones and healing […]
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What Do The Numbers Tell Us?

By Peter Moore, Business Director

Peter MoreWhat Do The Numbers Tell Us?

Breitenbush Hot Springs was homesteaded in 1904, becoming privately owned land. An enormous investment was subsequently made in the late ‘20s to build the Lodge, cabins and infrastructure of the original resort. Nearly a century later our Breitenbush Community Co-op is engaged in a 2nd phase of deep investment, with two purposes: 1. Maintain and upgrade the existing structures and infrastructure; 2. Design, engineer and build new structures/infrastructure that support those of us who live, work, grow and play at Breitenbush, and our guests who visit us. To carry these initiatives forward requires some numbers.

Last November our Board of Directors passed a new rate proposal for fiscal year 2017. It signals an increase in what we charge our guests. It’s not unusual for an organization to pass a rate hike, especially when inflationary pressures […]
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From ‘Holy’ to ‘Holistic’

By Peter Moore, Business Director

Peter MoreFrom ‘Holy’ to ‘Holistic’

For more than 30 years, the annual “International Holistic Centers Gathering” (IHCG), has brought together founders, administrators and program directors from holistic centers located throughout the world. The term ‘Holistic’ equates to personal growth and self-actualization; participating centers are un-affiliated with political parties or religious institutions. Each year the IHCG convenes at a different center in the world and a deep conversation ensues. I’ve had the sincere pleasure to attend the annual IHCG over the past decade and both I and Breitenbush Hot Springs have benefitted in many ways from the unique mind-meld and practical information exchanged between colleagues involved in this meaning-making field. What a gift.

In spring, 2013, I attended the IHCG at Esalen Institute, in California. There I met a first-time participant, Isabelle Duchesneau. She told us about a new holistic center […]
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Housing a Village

Peter MoreBy Peter Moore, Business Director

We all need housing. From city centers to Wildland-Urban Interfaces (WUI: it’s pronounced ‘woo-ee’) like Breitenbush, everyone needs a place to live. And because humans are so inventive and adaptive, our species has come up with a lot of ways to provide for this need. At Breitenbush, housing for workers has changed over the decades since our community was founded. When I got here in 1978, I could have had two houses, one on either side of the river, because there were no guests and lots of empty cabins. Since opening to serve the public more than 30 years ago our staff numbers have grown to keep up with burgeoning guest occupancy, and pressure for housing is greater now than ever before.

Although the “Tiny House” movement has been gaining momentum for well over a decade in the USA, Breitenbush has […]
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University of the Soul, China

By Peter Moore, Business Director

In October this year, I will visit China for the first time. I love Asia and earlier in my life spent a couple of years in Afganistan, Pakistan, India, Nepal, Burma and Thailand, but never China. My visit this year isn’t a tourist thing; I’ll be attending a Centers Gathering (www.centersgathering.org) at New Haiwen (www.newhaiwen.com.cn), a Chinese retreat & conference center, and will later give a talk at an international conference where I’ll speak about the benefits of starting and managing such a center.

Attending the Centers Gathering is a continuance of a pattern I’ve involved myself in over the past decade, and written about (University of the Soul, Breitenbush Newsletter/Catalog, Fall, 2011). This annual event is a gathering of administrators and program directors representing centers from every continent. We have convened for three decades, each year at a different center, in the US, British Isles, […]
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The Ender of Assigned Gender

A big stir around our circle recently has been a conversation/debate about what defines gender and who gets to decide. It appeared as a proposal to both recognize and actively support transgender people in their struggle for inclusion and acceptance in society, starting with women-only events at Breitenbush (whether sponsored by Breitenbush or not). It is noted that transgender people are perhaps the most persecuted population of all, suffering a host of abuses, from sexual violence to ridicule, ostracism, shunning, lack of public services, loss of employment and family abandonment, among other cruelties. To be clear, Breitenbush has always recognized the self-stated gender of women in Breitenbush-sponsored women-only events. However, there is one women-only event sponsored by a group (not Breitenbush) that invites “women born women” only. This group of women has been coming to Breitenbush for 30-years and might be variously described as: radical feminist warriors at the forefront of the revolution to […]
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Celebrating

There is a magnetized sign that sticks to surfaces in my kitchen, it says, “Kindness is My Religion”. It gives me joy to see it. I tell my daughters that joy is the most revolutionary act possible if the heart remains open to the suffering out there, without denial. I don’t know if my daughters entirely get it yet, but I observe they’re taking it in. It’s a practice, living intentionally with kindness and joy.

Breitenbush was envisioned as an intentional community at our beginnings in the late 1970s. Kindness and joy were assumed to be at the heart of the community co-op, even during the inevitable disagreements over personalities, principles or practices. You can find kindness and joy embedded in our Credo, written in 1978. Thirty-five years later, these qualities have found expression in a covert sort of way in the Breitenbush Facilities Council Charter, adopted in 2013, wherein the final principle is […]
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Grace and Commitment

peter-14Spring is budget season for Breitenbush, a time when we who live and work here participate one way or another in evaluation of the year gone by, and financial planning for the year to come. The first day of our new fiscal year is always April Fools Day, an apt symbol I think. Finance is, for me, a mysterious and creative domain. I often smile that I’m an intuitive artist acting as a business director, but Breitenbush’s budget process turns that little personal joke into reality, as it forces into focus the partnership of intuition and mathematical rigor required for successful financial planning. Good budgeting requires the balance of left and right-brain hemispheric participation to make it go well. At least that’s my experience.

I close my eyes and spin back in time. The Breitenbush that I came to in spring, 1978, had neither a budget season […]
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Rebirth of the Age of Children

ChildcareThis summer, our childcare provider person decided she needed to move on to her next adventure. Maria’s decision set into motion our community’s response to finding our next childcare provider, and this, in turn, led to larger questions—like, what do we really want for the children who live with us at Breitenbush Hot Springs?

Coincidentally, we’re experiencing a relative baby boom at Breitenbush, a sort of rebirth of children being born and coming to live in our community. This, after a longish period during which we had few, if any, children living here year-round. For starters, we now have the baby boy I adopted with my partner a couple of years ago. I cannot adequately describe how it changed my life to change diapers again, and do all those things that new parents do. Raising children is like riding a bicycle, you never forget how really, but […]
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